Are you mentally prepared to pick up on a woman at a moment’s notice and talk to her? Do you know exactly what to do in order to get the ball rolling with her? Do you easily strike up conversations with women while you’re on the move? Your prepared enough with your approach that she finds you attractive?
When it comes to figuring out where to meet women, you have to understand that they are everywhere just waiting for you to approach them authentically. Did you read me…I said Authentically. These women want real conversation with real eye contact and real intentions.
As a Matchmaker we make the approach easy so you can focus on having an engaging conversation. If I can speak frankly I’d love to share a tidbit of very important information concerning your dating opportunities. Do I have your attention? Our amazing female clients are extremely excited to connect with you, they are sincerely looking to meet someone special. They can’t wait to laugh and love. If by chance you are not working with a Matchmaker then I urge you to approach and talk to women. Talk about whatever’s happening in the store, happening on the street, or maybe something significant that’s happening in the world. Tell a joke, make her laugh. Make fun of something that’s going on around you the two you but please, please stay away from cheesy pickup lines…unless you want to see her run away from you as fast as she can…I just think women are sick and tired of them. Straight talk with a little funny, upbeat sarcasm will serve you well.
I will encourage you to try more spontaneity in your approach? It’s ok to let the situation dictate your pickup approach? Most women love it when your more like yourself. Try smiling in her direction and throwing out a compliment to her.
Say something like, “Sorry to bother you, but I have a quick pasta question? Do you wait till the water boils before you put the noodles in?”
After she answers thank her and tell her, “I owe you a pasta dinner sometime”. If you’ve got an open window, take advantage of it wholeheartedly.
If you fear rejection, it will rear its ugly head, time and time again, and ruin your approach. There’s no other way to put it than being completely blunt…you have to always go for it. I do!
Stop trying to figure out what women really want, you’re not going to be successful with every woman every single time. And no man has ever mastered the “Women’s Code”. Let’s put it in baseball terms, try to bat at least .300. Sure, you’ll be rejected seven times but you’ll also go home with three new phone numbers in your phone. Oh hell yeah!
Lastly pay attention to a woman’s body language. The way a woman moves is keys. I encourage my clients to use their secret weapon…you know it and I know it, it’s all about the charming personality. Her body language will tell you if you’ve got her attention and it will also tell you if you haven’t got it. But it’s not a total lost cause…just because she is giving you the “not really vibe”, take your time and massage the conversation more. Remind yourself that women fall in love through their ears. The women I work with will always appreciate a man who is authentically trying to get to know them. If it seems like things are going well, make it a point to take things to the next level. It’s like building blocks, be playfully smart and curious that way you are growing the conversation. When you understand her personality type it is super easy to close the dating opportunity. Put a little more elbow grease into your dating approach, stand out from others… it won’t go unnoticed.