🙆🏽♀️How big of an age range do you think is reasonable when dating in today’s world? I talk to many singles who are open to dating someone 10 years younger but can’t fathom dating someone 10 years older. Are we becoming ageist? Or is this the new normal?
>Is it ok to called out on your age choices?
>Do you think by mid life most people know what works for them and what doesn’t?
I know I know, we all have our “ideal preferences”… but is that laundry list so long, so detailed that it’s keeping you out of the dating game?
It is my belief that the way we perceive ourselves and those we ‘think’ we should be with have a significant impact on the life we manifest.
When we wait for the perfect partner we may find ourselves making any number of excuses to put our lives on hold in the meantime.
Well, I’m here to encourage you to commit yourself to looking at dating as an opportunity, one that may lead to new energy in your life.
🤦🏽♀️ Release preconceived notion‘s
🙅🏽♀️Leave old routines in the past
💁🏽♀️ View each day as an opportunity
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I think, based on optimism, that life is a journey with U-turns curves and pot holes rather than a just a maze of lines. A maze seems trite or a little simple to me. At least for my life.
It never ceases to amaze me how some people stroll through life, always the same mood, always happy on the outside anyway and seemingly settled (so they think). I’ve mentioned this here because there are some strategies I’ve used to jump some of life’s tough hurdles. Hurdles that may “Hold Me Back”.
Rid your life of negative destructive or uncomfortable people. They are a good portion of the population. Believe it!😳
Expect 50% to be eliminated in your mind. Means bumping into them at shops, talk for a maximum of 30 seconds to be polite and – go! You eliminate any chance of getting upset. That includes your social media friends too.
🚘 If you can afford to move. Or opt to work from home…less stress. No parking metres, calm lifestyle, friendly people in smaller towns. And you are out of the rat race.
Release your Superwoman or Superman. Stop expecting too much of yourself. Organize your life so you don’t get caught up in things that should have been done. Rushing to do them causes stress. Delegate…..if you have to or plan better.
🙏🏼Cherish what you have – not what you do not have. Life is full of beautiful imperfections…channel your emotions to others. Channel what you would have channelled to loved ones – had you had the chance. 💫
❤️ Find “Real Love” with “Real people who want love, the ones open to possibilities” and connect with your Spiritual peace from within, whatever that is for you. 😬
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To celebrate Valentine’s Day, the usual dinner-and box of chocolate and or flowers will certainly get the job done this year. But this is your chance to prove your love and show your Valentine just how special they are. In other words, Valentine’s Day calls for something truly elevated, step up your game!
To help you out, we rounded up some inventive, unforgettable, heart-throbbing date ideas in the Los Angeles area (could apply in other area’s, google idea for similar places to go).
Looking for a fun and unique activity for your Valentine’s day date? Escape Room LA is a one-of-a-kind interactive adventure that everyone will love! There’s an Escape Room in LA, clues are tricky, but no special skills or knowledge is required. It’s a Fun Date Night! I’ve done it.
Shopping spree anyone?
Find fun, unique stores, stores that may tell a story —shop locally, I love this fun store on Melrose Ave www.newprofanity.com – funny place to take a date – deep discussions required. Keep strolling together down Melrose Ave or a nice walk through Laguna Beach local shops, if you dare hit the malls. Decide on a set amount of money. You each have 30 minutes to buy something for each other. Whomever picks the best gift wins.
Dance to jazz like it’s the Roaring Twenties
Hit up a local hot Jazz club, make a ’20s-themed evening out of it, time for fun dress up. Gentleman get the chance to bust out your three-piece suits and swanky hats. Ladies get to break out their glitter flapper dresses, make a night of it. Order old fashion drinks and cuddle up to a great night of music and fun. www.catalinajazzclub.com
Make your own art and sip
www.paintandsipstudiola.com Here you bring your own wine—or beverage of choice—and make your most valiant effort at painting a predetermined piece. Though every piece of art is ostensibly based off the same initial artwork, the results are generally wildly different, and quite entertaining.This a great opportunity for you to chat, laugh and get creative with your Valentine’s Day Date.
All around the country, you’ll find more and more movie theaters (like IPIC Theater) that offer the whole package: Drinks, dinner, and, of course, a movie. Talk about getting comfy :-). www.ipictheaters.com/#/home/
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REAL CLIENT LOOKING FOR “REAL LOVE”
- She is described as: Happy, fun, loving, healthy, grateful, successful, vibrant
- She lives by her “Golden Rules”: Be open-minded, tolerant, non-judgmental, charitable, patient
- Best quality: Laughs easily
- Bucket-list destinations: Nantucket, Hamptons, Nova Scotia, Paris, Greece, Austria, Switzerland
- Last book She read: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
- Go to Netflix’s: Game of Thrones, Homeland, Shameless, Damnation, Westworld
- Favorite comedy of all time: There’s Something About Mary
- Best advise: “Don’t take any wooden nickels”
- Food indulgence: Fine chocolate ~ “so good”
- Favorite cocktail: Lemon drop
- Favorite meal: Steak dinner
- Open to dating Men ages: 33-52
- Relationship Goals: “I want to fall in love and have a family”
- Qualities She is looking for in a Man: Loving, trustworthy, happy, successful, financially stable, clever, intelligent, thoughtful, sporty, good business sense, good listener and enthusiastic (hopefully about finding love).
Sounds like someone you would like to meet ~ “She” is looking for Serious Suitors Only
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If you didn’t lock down a life partner around 2007, you’ve probably experienced how laughably difficult dating is for SINGLE professionals in our big, yet ever-so-small cities.
It seems nobody wants to settle down. And those who do can be disgruntled and disappointed in the end.
6 reasons why it’s more difficult than ever on the single scene — especially if you’re looking for a relationship.
We don’t have to tell you that social media has been both a blessing and a curse for Singles.
Swiping right and left method. Decisions made on Picture alone… “What is happening to us?”
***Do you find yourself bragging about your Tinder account but yet you are still single… Why? I hear this often….
Have you looked in the mirror- there are HOT girls and HOT guys everywhere… I mean everywhere…. HOW DO YOU MEASURE UP?
Looking for Mr/Ms Perfect- Are you Perfect?:
Expectations to HIGH? Are we all too focused on the “Pic” and not the person?
There’s so much everywhere going on all the time it makes it hard to know where, when and how.
When the Romance is gone those of us with similar high hopes of a serendipitous courtship are usually disappointed.
There is a SECRET to getting better results…Better Results start with a Better You!
Could you be “A BETTER YOU”?
For personalized dating tips, call Jessie at 855-664-4588