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Successful People Seeking Romantic Relationships

DON’T RELY ON LUCK

I don’t know many successful people that rely on luck. Most of them make a plan, hire out for the best results and push forward towards their goals. It’s like a well oiled machine – efficiency is everything. I think its fair to assume that busy professionals spend endless hours thinking about how to grow business and not which way to swipe on a dating app. In the business world there are many early mornings and even more late nights, leaving very little time for a personal life. There are no shortcuts to a place worth going to. 

TECHNOLOGY vs REAL RELATIONSHIPS

Technology has changed all of our lives so much so that if you are a high quality successful single business person you barely have time to breath. Never mind figuring out these forever changing gadgets and dating apps, with so much available and ever changing we rarely slow down to think of how it’s impacting finding real love. How many of us can honestly say that the Swipe right-Swipe left phenomenon, is really adding to our lives. I think many of us would argue that dating apps have maybe negatively affected the search for finding love. After all it capitalizes on the idea that quantity vs. quality is better. Yet I think most would say dating apps are exhausting and they are time guzzlers and more times than not they bring disappointment. Most online gadgets are designed to keep you swiping right and left rather than help you find the right match – the apps defense is that they think quantity is king . And all this does is it creates the “next best thing” effect, which undoubtably causes us to focus on superficial qualities or instant chemistry. Which brings me to my point…most high quality successful singles understand that lasting, committed relationships take time, they take hard work that it requires trust and dedication. Success is usually never gained with just a swipe and rarely if ever happens instantly.

MATCHMAKING IS NOT SMOKE AND MIRRORS

As a matchmaker for the last 23 years, I like to think my job is very important… it’s a journey, a journey we take together. I love meeting happy successful singles that are open to possibilities and believe in work hard-play hard method. The ones who do not believe in smoke and mirrors they just give you straight talk and they like having a dating road map (it’s the little details that really matter). As a matchmaker it’s my job to relieve you of the driver seat position. I know it’s important to give you the time to focus on your success in business and not on whether or not you are going to run into someone special. On this journey we will follow your personalized dating map, I will introduce you to wonderful beautiful people…people you will usually not run into on your own. Because as a busy professional we know that most the people you run into maybe during a meeting or at a conference and the chances are slim that you want to date someone from work. Knowing this makes me even more focused to finding you lasting, exclusive commitments – pulling out all the stops so you don’t miss out. Busy executives don’t want to deal with the day in the day out of trying to find that special person. So as a matchmaker I try to create an environment that makes getting to know each other exciting, comfortable and enjoyable. Listen, the hardest part of dating as a successful professional is not really the “dating” part – it’s the time factor, the outcome. Successful people are usually rushing around making the most of their time. I understand this and I honor their professional mindset. Executives rarely have time to go out and meet new people in bars or clubs there just isn’t enough time in the day nor is that their focus. They usually have little time and effort to date and quality plus a true connection is most important to them.

LOOKING FOR SUCCESSFUL GO-GETTERS

I enjoy working with successful go-getters. There is always a reason that they are on the top of the corporate ladder. They are most always driven, persistent and they ooze confidence at work. If I ask them they most likely know what they want in life and will do anything in their power to get it.

If you are high-quality successful Single I encourage you to sit down with me. Let’s talk about your personal journey and what that looks like to you. I look forward to helping you find your road map to love.

Warm Regards,

Jessie 

855-664-4588

jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

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8 Most Dating Mistakes Men Make & Don’t End Up Scoring A 2nd Date

8 Most Dating Mistakes Men Make & Don’t End Up Scoring A 2nd Date

👉🏽 While you think you’re acing it on a 1st date, you sometimes end up making really careless dating mistakes.
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*Being Too Choosy And Picky

Are you waiting for someone better to come along? Well, the trick is to live for the moment and go with that gut feeling.
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*Being The Indifferent Fool

If you’re trying to play hard to get, maybe, just maybe it’s getting old? Old Tricks are not always GOOD TRICKS 👎🏽
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*Not Texting Back

It’s a stupid game and no one is interested in waiting to hear back from you. If you really want her SHOW HER 📲Text or Call 👍🏽
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*Don’t Start Sexting Straight Away and stop asking for more pics – MEET her already

If it’s a fresh new beginning, which starts with a ‘hey, what’s up’, don’t, I repeat, don’t send her d*ick pictures straight away, just because you can let jack out of the box, anytime you like. Hold it in and make conversation like a decent man please.
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*Romance Is NOT For Wimps

No harm in showing your sweeter side once in a while with sweet and lovable romantic gestures. You don’t become any less of a man for being sweet, selfless and caring!
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*Expecting Or Asking For Sex On The First Date

No one owes you a free f*ck just because you bought them dinner. So please be a gentleman and stop thinking about humping the daylights out of her, on your first date.
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*X Doesn’t Mark The Spot

Why would you want to bring out the X-files? She’s not interested in who you dated or who you banged 4 months ago. 😳
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👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽 Oh yeah one more thing! 👈🏽👈🏽👈🏽
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*Make up your mind, IN ADVANCE to have fun 🙌🏽 LAUGHTER IS SEXY!

Love, Jessie 

 

credit: @mensxpofficial

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5 Things You Can Do To Increase Online Dating Responses

 

Get better online dating responses

Dating can be very frustrating…and getting positive responses from online dating, can be tortuous. If you are single and sincerely looking for love, I encourage you to be on at least one dating site. Leave No stone unturned.

Here are 5 helpful tips to increase your online dating responses: 

  • Timing is everything 

Check the dating pool temperature, know when the person you are looking for is online most. According to Zoosk the time that Men are most found online checking their messages is between 7am-10am. And Zoosk found almost the polar opposite for women. Women are found to be more active, checking their messages between the hours of 8pm-11pm. So send the guy or the gal you have been eyeing a “Good morning early bird” or “Good evening night owl” message between those times. Or engage with them through instant message by saying something like, “Good morning, I wanted to check-in with you early to say Hello, that way you start your day off with a smile” (replace the Good morning with Good evening for messages to women – also change “that way you end your night with a smile”). Take the initiative if you are serious about finding love this year.

  • Post more activity pictures 

According to Match.com people engage more with pictures that show you being active, alive and adventurous. So whether it is hiking, surfing, walking outdoors, paddle boarding, skiing or sharing the infamous yoga pose – post some really great active shots where we can clearly see you are having fun (be sure they are not blurry pictures and that we can see your face).

  • Master the selfie

Master the art of taking a selfie and for pete’s sake keep your friends out of the picture. Who needs the competition or the confusion of whose profile is this anyway. Beside make your meet and greet about the two of you not your family and friends (at least not yet).

  • Positive words, will lead to positive results 

The words can’t, won’t and picky are used way to often in the dating world. I can not tell you how many profiles I have read that start off with negative information. Instead of the word can’t or won’t use the words – I’ll try or I’m open. Instead of telling everyone you meet you’re picky- use your dating time wisely, tell people what you want rather than what you don’t want. Ask for a dating referral if they themselves are not right for you. 

  • Have fun with rewriting your profile

It’s important that you put some effort into your profile but don’t make it to clinical or resemble a resume format. Guys this means you too, women don’t like blank profiles. Remember women fall in love with words or with actual conversation (the old saying women fall in love through their ears is a true statement).

Enjoy telling people about what they are in for when they meet you. For example these phrases, lead to more views and response.

  1. I love a good happy hour. Do you have a favorite place?
  2. I am always up for a good cocktail and better apps (appetizers).
  3. I love a good lunch adventure, let’s find a new spot to meet.
  4. I am really into creating eventful fun…let’s make some fun memories together.

For more dating advice or coaching efforts please contact me personally, I would love to help you spice up your dating life with better results.

Jessie Kay 

855-664-4588 

or email me personally at jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

 

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It’s her time to fall in Love!

 LA Matchmaking service 

REAL CLIENT LOOKING FOR “REAL LOVE”

  • She is described as: Happy, fun, loving, healthy, grateful, successful, vibrant
  • She lives by her “Golden Rules”: Be open-minded, tolerant, non-judgmental, charitable, patient
  • Best quality: Laughs easily
  • Bucket-list destinations: Nantucket, Hamptons, Nova Scotia, Paris, Greece, Austria, Switzerland
  • Last book She read: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
  • Go to Netflix’s: Game of Thrones, Homeland, Shameless, Damnation, Westworld
  • Favorite comedy of all time: There’s Something About Mary
  • Best advise: “Don’t take any wooden nickels”
  • Food indulgence: Fine chocolate ~ “so good”
  • Favorite cocktail: Lemon drop
  • Favorite meal: Steak dinner
  • Open to dating Men ages: 33-52
  • Relationship Goals: “I want to fall in love and have a family”
  • Qualities She is looking for in a Man: Loving, trustworthy, happy, successful, financially stable, clever, intelligent, thoughtful, sporty, good business sense, good listener and enthusiastic (hopefully about finding love).

Sounds like someone you would like to meet ~ “She” is looking for Serious Suitors Only

Inquire within at Jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

PRESS RELEASE: The Real Matchmaker Helps California Singles Find a “Honey for the Holidays”

PRESS RELEASE: The Real Matchmaker Helps California Singles Find a “Honey for the Holidays”

The Real Matchmaker, a personalized dating service based in California, is dedicated to helping professionals find love with unique local singles’ events and handpicked pairings. This season, the experienced dating coaches in Los Angeles and San Francisco are educating clients on how to manage often tricky holiday relationships.

Offering dating tips for men and women alike, the love and image consultants understand that many people desire a “Honey for the Holidays.” Glamourized as one of the more romantic times of the year, the holiday season is full of opportunities to meet professional singles and explore potential connections. This year, The Real Matchmaker hopes to give all of their clients the chance to have that magical kiss under the mistletoe.

The Real Matchmaker guides singles on everything from tips for a great first date to creative date ideas that incorporate local holiday events. For an organic way of meeting new people, the dating coaches suggest paying attention during Christmas shopping. Look for other patrons with similar tastes and start a conversation, or ask an interesting individual for their advice on which gift to choose.

Holiday dating for professional singles can be complicated, however. The Real Matchmaker advises against bringing someone to family events until the relationship has had time to grow. Instead, go ice-skating together or take a Christmas lights tour.

No matter the season, California singles can always find support from The Real Matchmaker’s date coaches and personal image consultants. From individually selected, one-on-one dates and interest-based events for singles to online dating profile tips and exclusive singles’ forums, The Real Matchmaker helps clients find compatible, exciting, and attractive connections.

Learn more or join The Real Matchmaker’s network by contacting the personal dating coaches at 855-664-4LUV or through their online form. For upcoming events, such as speed dating in Los Angeles on Dec. 8 and 14, contact a member of The Real Matchmaker’s team: Los Angeles and Orange County professionals are encouraged to contact Jessie Kay at jessie@therealmatchmaker.com, while interested individuals in San Francisco can reach Anni Powers at anni@therealmatchmaker.com.

 

About The Real Matchmaker

The Real Matchmaker is a date scouting agency serving Los Angeles, Orange County, and San Francisco. Its dating coaching and image consultation services help single professionals meet interesting and compatible individuals through handpicked matches and local singles’ events. The dating coaches offer date tips for a wide range of situations and customize the experience to the clients’ needs.

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Jessie Kay

The Real Matchmaker

855-664-4588

www.therealmatchmaker.com

jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

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