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Dating can be FUN!

Approaching someone for the first time can be tricky. How do you go about it, what do you say to someone that could be flirty enough but doesn’t come across as creepy or annoying. In a sea full of singles and corny pickup lines, how do you stand out? The usual approach is to just go straight up and say a simple Hello, followed by the usual ‘How are you, what do you like to do for fun’ this kind of conversation can be construed as mundane chitchat right?! It’s 2018 come with the funny and up your dating game!
Push the envelope by striking up a conversation that catches someone off-guard.
I found 7 funny pickup lines that are great icebreakers. Nothing makes for a more interesting conversation starter than a little sassy or dirty birdie talk.
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🤪California classic, everyone has a dog.
“That’s a cute dog, does it have a name and phone number”
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🤪Hit them with a vain comment.
“What’s a smart, good looking person like myself doing without your number…just saying”
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🤪Everyone likes some sort of sweets.
“You’re like ice cream 🍦, even when you’re bad…you’re so Good”
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🤪Slide in to home plate. “You see my friend over there is shy. He asked me to ask you if you think I’m attractive”
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🤪Follow you anywhere comment.
“I’m going on a long walk (extend your hand out) can you hold this?”
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🤪Daredevil “Listen, you are beautiful and honestly that’s the least interesting thing about you”
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🤪Confidence is Everything!
“So, where are you from? Why do I ask such a mundane question you ask? Because you look Amazing and I want to get to know you sincerely”
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MORAL OF THE STORY… Take the chance and approach someone wholeheartedly and with a sense of humor.

Laughing is ALWAYS the best medicine.
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➡️We are looking for SINGLES for our clients. Please fill out a confidential profile “Let’s see who’s looking for you”💕⬅️
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🔴If you are a match we will complementary set you up🔴
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Hit Link Here to Fill Out a Confidential Profile 
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Thanks for reading!

Love, Jessie

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We Are Recruiting For Love…

We are recruiting for our current Wonderful clients. 

👉🏽We are looking for men ages 35-65
👉🏽We are looking for ladies 25-50
👉🏽It’s Free To JOIN OUR CONFIDENTIAL DATE-A-BASE (Fill out a profile)

 

LIST OF CURRENT CLIENTS WE ARE SEEKING MATCHES FOR:

👉🏽58 yr old Man – Business Owner – non-religious, active, girl next door type

👉🏽50 yr old Man – Business Investor – non-religious, classy, scholar, engaging, International 

👉🏽45 yr old Man – Sales Director – Christian, tall, a little nerdy and funny

👉🏽42 yr old Man – Business Owner – adventure seeker, giving, curious with a strong learning curve

👉🏽63 yr old Man – Newly retired – generous, great cook, loves shopping and wants a true mate

👉🏽52 yr old Man – Lives in Hawaii – College professor, tall, happy, creative and looking for love 

👉🏽29 yr old Woman – Software, sweet, loving, healthy and interested in marriage and kids

👉🏽40 yr old Woman – Real Estate Investor, funny, exciting, great mom and has a heart of gold

👉🏽36 yr old Woman – Lawyer, nice to everyone, smile lights up room, loves sports and family

👉🏽35 yr old Woman – Independent contractor/Real Estate Investor, loves to smile, loves to do flips, loves life

👉🏽58 yr old Woman – Management – Christian, happy, healthy, engaging, smart, open to nuances, laughs easy

👉🏽54 yr old Woman – Business Owner – Christian, lights up a room, giving, charitable, funny, over the top nice

“LET US SEE WHO’S LOOKING FOR YOU”

LOVE, JESSIE 

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Be Good To Yourself First.

 

I told him, “Offer me something I cannot find in myself.” #lovequotes

Nowadays, so much of social influences lead us or pressure us to be obsessed with the materialism of relationships.
We fuel the misconceptions of relationships and it is so crazy how at times we don’t even realize we are doing this.

The quote above opened discouraging thoughts in my mind about settling and compromising. It reminded me, that I am significant. I am one of a kind. And that I am alive. 💪🏽Be good to yourself first.

***It’s your job to find people who focus on finding love through positive possibilities. A matchmaker is a “Positive Outlet” for finding love and learning how to be “Your Personal Best” in the dating world (you have to be ready for positive changes).

Jessie 855-664-4588 

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Your Love Life Is Not Always Like A Maze

 

 

I think, based on optimism, that life is a journey with U-turns curves and pot holes rather than a just a maze of lines. A maze seems trite or a little simple to me. At least for my life.

It never ceases to amaze me how some people stroll through life, always the same mood, always happy on the outside anyway and seemingly settled (so they think). I’ve mentioned this here because there are some strategies I’ve used to jump some of life’s tough hurdles. Hurdles that may “Hold Me Back”.

Rid your life of negative destructive or uncomfortable people. They are a good portion of the population. Believe it!😳
Expect 50% to be eliminated in your mind. Means bumping into them at shops, talk for a maximum of 30 seconds to be polite and – go! You eliminate any chance of getting upset. That includes your social media friends too.

🚘 If you can afford to move. Or opt to work from home…less stress. No parking metres, calm lifestyle, friendly people in smaller towns. And you are out of the rat race.

Release your Superwoman or Superman. Stop expecting too much of yourself. Organize your life so you don’t get caught up in things that should have been done. Rushing to do them causes stress. Delegate…..if you have to or plan better.

🙏🏼Cherish what you have – not what you do not have. Life is full of beautiful imperfections…channel your emotions to others. Channel what you would have channelled to loved ones – had you had the chance. 💫

❤️ Find “Real Love” with “Real people who want love, the ones open to possibilities” and connect with your Spiritual peace from within, whatever that is for you. 😬

Call Jessie for Coaching Tips – “Get the Partner you’re looking for” 

Jessie 855-664-4588

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I Can’t Believe She’s Single…

REAL CLIENT LOOKING FOR “REAL LOVE”

  • She is described as: Smiley, fun, affectionate, healthy, playful, vibrant, trivia expert
  • She lives by her “Golden Rules”: Laugh easy and laugh loud
  • Best quality: Great at making deserts
  • Bucket-list destinations: Caribbean, Norway, Ireland
  • Last book She read: The Last One – Audio version 
  • Go to Netflix’s: Orange is the New Black, Bloodline, Ozark, Black Mirror
  • Favorite comedy of all time: Old School – (I know, I know)
  • Best advise: “If you are the smartest person in the room, then you are in the wrong room.” — Confucius
  • Food indulgence: Fine coffee – food would be Peaches
  • Favorite cocktail: Gin and Tonic
  • Favorite meal: Taco’s
  • Open to dating Men ages: 33-45
  • Relationship Goals: “I want to meet Mr. Right for Me”
  • Qualities She is looking for in a Man: Moral integrity, Confidence, Affectionate, Clever, Love of learning, commitment.

Sounds like someone you would like to meet ~ “She” is looking for Serious Suitors Only

Inquire within at Jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

 

 

 

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Get noticed! Learn to approach someone in the real world.

Get noticed, learn to approach someone out and about in the Real World.

It’s terrifying and it can be thrilling all at once, if only he/she knew you were interested.

Have you ever been out around town minding your own business – and Boom! You see him or her and your heart stops. As your eyes follow them around, you keep thinking,”How can I make him/her notice me? How can I stand out in public?”.

Here are a few tips to get his/her attention:

  • Stand-out, be known for something. Do you have a favorite color? Take for instance Lisa-Raye McCoy (instagram.com/thereallraye1/) is known for only wearing the color white everything. She’s branding herself and making herself stand out. Or maybe you have a favorite hat or sports team memorabilia you can sport around. I happen to love the Minnesota Vikings, I am known for sporting a Vikings hat or Vikings T-shirt. And let me tell you ladies…this has become a great talking point whenever I encounter men out and about. Men always look at my hat or shirt and smile, maybe even comment on my Vikings season. I also comment whenever I see men wearing their favorite sporting memorabilia with “nice team or good luck with your season or nice game”. It always opens up engaging, competitive sort of conversations that lead to fun talk.
  • Know your motives. Knowing your motivation helps you keep going and makes it easy for others to relate to you. Why do you do you think you would be a good match for them? What do you like about the person you want to approach; eyes, hair, skin, smile, laugh, brain, physique, presence or maybe everything. Surprise them with a compliment, “Love your eyes”. You will definitely stand out, it’s rare for someone to compliment someone they don’t know personally.
  • Be prepared. When the opportunity opens up, be the person who is ready and able to be part of the moment. A good way to prepare is by having something clever to say when you have the chance to say something – “I love your hat”. “You have a great smile, you should use it more often” (make eye contact with him/her and smile). “Good seeing you here again” (be sure to make eye contact with him/her and smile).                                                                                                               “I’ve been wanting to say Hello to you, it feels good we finally did” (use this only if you are daring enough).
  • Love yourself confidently – what message are you giving off. Make sure you know how you show up. How do you act in public? Do you know how the opposite sex perceives you (get honest feedback from friends, relatives, ex’s or better yet from a matchmaker). Everything you say or do is a reflection of who you are – it’s called character. Try to be in high spirits on a more consistent basis. Smile when you talk to people – even when on the phone. I promise it will make your conversations feel better and sound better.
  • BE BRAVE-INTRODUCE YOURSELF. Keep it simple. If you frequent the place often you can say, “I see you around a lot, I don’t think we’ve actually met. I’m _______”. If you are really brave then go ahead and slightly brush up against him/her and you can say, “Oh, Excuse you…kidding! Excuse me, I’m ______ how you are? Sorry didn’t get your name? Nice to meet you, I hope to run into you again – literally. Have a good one” (don’t forget to smile and flirt a little with your eyes as you slowly walk away). AND if you run into them again, this gives you permission to say something like, “You again, nice to see you” (with an excited smile on your face). Or You could just go for it, what do you have to lose…Say something like, “For some reason I keep looking your direction, I find you very interesting. Do we know each other? I’m _______ by the way”.

Put yourself in the drivers seat of your dating life, it’s ok to “go for it” and get noticed while out in the Real world.

For more dating advice or confidence building with dating – you can reach me at jessie@therealmathcmaker.com or give me a call at 855-664-4588. Let’s talk about your dating or coaching plan, meet Mr or Miss Right this year.

Jessie Kay

 

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LA California Matchmakers

What is Love Search Networking?

Let us approach singles for you!

 

 

 

 

 

 

We are positioning ourselves as “Love Recruiters”. We actually enjoy doing the love search for you.

Look, we know being single in these times is incredibly hard. Swiping left and right, dismissing each other is becoming a way of life with dating. We want to relieve you of the swiping, we are looking to celebrate you! It’s our goal to separate you from the online dating apps and highlight you as someone – “I can’t believe is single”

According to Revise Sociology, most of us work 50% of our waking hours. With that being said, we encourage you to spend the remaining 50% of your waking hours on getting to know someone special rather than searching high and low. Take action! While you are at work or living your active life, we are behind the scenes developing relationships with people who can help in your love search.

We work on your behalf finding dating and love opportunities – we will ask everyone for dating referrals.

Timing is everything and if you don’t have the time let us do the date scouting work for you.

Join our Exclusive Singles Network, let us do a quick search for you.

Love, Jessie

855-664-4588

 

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It’s her time to fall in Love!

 LA Matchmaking service 

REAL CLIENT LOOKING FOR “REAL LOVE”

  • She is described as: Happy, fun, loving, healthy, grateful, successful, vibrant
  • She lives by her “Golden Rules”: Be open-minded, tolerant, non-judgmental, charitable, patient
  • Best quality: Laughs easily
  • Bucket-list destinations: Nantucket, Hamptons, Nova Scotia, Paris, Greece, Austria, Switzerland
  • Last book She read: 7 Habits of Highly Effective People
  • Go to Netflix’s: Game of Thrones, Homeland, Shameless, Damnation, Westworld
  • Favorite comedy of all time: There’s Something About Mary
  • Best advise: “Don’t take any wooden nickels”
  • Food indulgence: Fine chocolate ~ “so good”
  • Favorite cocktail: Lemon drop
  • Favorite meal: Steak dinner
  • Open to dating Men ages: 33-52
  • Relationship Goals: “I want to fall in love and have a family”
  • Qualities She is looking for in a Man: Loving, trustworthy, happy, successful, financially stable, clever, intelligent, thoughtful, sporty, good business sense, good listener and enthusiastic (hopefully about finding love).

Sounds like someone you would like to meet ~ “She” is looking for Serious Suitors Only

Inquire within at Jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

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