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ARE YOU AT YOUR BEST AND ATTRACTING THE RIGHT PEOPLE?

 

 

    My 30 Day Challenge to BE MY BEST!

My life is not different then yours in a lot of ways. You’re busy, you work hard-play hard, you love deep and you have little time for yourself. I’ve definitely had some hard moments this past year. Moments that have thrown me a little off balance. I noticed my energy and my vibration level was low and it started to affect my psyche. Even though I laughed and smiled all day long, I still felt sluggish inside. Some of the moments I went through were personal and some had to do with a relationship ending. I found myself also letting my own frustrations with being a newly single woman in her 40’s attribute to my sluggishness. The funny thing is I didn’t really see myself when I looked in the mirror. I made up all kinds of excuses in my own head. I’m sharing this because I know I’m not the only one blinded to the sluggish image in the mirror – not really coming full circle with how I may have been perceived. I was sabotaging my own healthy vibe. So at the end of August I knew I wanted to change. I wanted to push myself to feel my best. I made a conscience decision to attract more happy moments and build better relationships. I started a “30 day challenge”, challenging myself on September 6th. I am determined to raise my vibration and give my attitude a new positive outlook. I realized that I was not attracting the kind of people I wanted to attract, and I know that dating starts with ME. I can’t ask for something if I can’t offer the same in return. 

So I learned how to meditate in the morning (kinda getting better at it😏) and I now repeat positive affirmations daily. I made a kickass vision board. I started working out 6 days a week followed by a healthy eating plan. I am smiling all day-working on not judging. It’s been hard getting up at 5:30 am, sometimes I want to give up. But I crave change and by day 15 of my challenge I noticed a burst of energy running through my body and a healthier body forming. I’m smiling more, your only as good as you feel. I am liking the person I see in the mirror more, my spirit is lifting. I was excited pushing through my 30 day challenge.

And on day 29… I received the ultimate compliment… a cute guy in line at the store said to me, “You must of had a great workout because you’re glowing”. I smiled from ear to ear 😁

…And said, “Thanks, I’m just loving myself more”.😘

I am excited to continue my path of raising my positive vibration and working on my continual Weightloss/better health. 💪🏽 

I am looking to attract the right people for me when I am at my Best.

Are you at your Best? 
Take your own 30 day challenge to a better you. 🙌🏽 

(ask me how to get started)

Live your best life,

Jessie 
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Successful People Seeking Romantic Relationships

DON’T RELY ON LUCK

I don’t know many successful people that rely on luck. Most of them make a plan, hire out for the best results and push forward towards their goals. It’s like a well oiled machine – efficiency is everything. I think its fair to assume that busy professionals spend endless hours thinking about how to grow business and not which way to swipe on a dating app. In the business world there are many early mornings and even more late nights, leaving very little time for a personal life. There are no shortcuts to a place worth going to. 

TECHNOLOGY vs REAL RELATIONSHIPS

Technology has changed all of our lives so much so that if you are a high quality successful single business person you barely have time to breath. Never mind figuring out these forever changing gadgets and dating apps, with so much available and ever changing we rarely slow down to think of how it’s impacting finding real love. How many of us can honestly say that the Swipe right-Swipe left phenomenon, is really adding to our lives. I think many of us would argue that dating apps have maybe negatively affected the search for finding love. After all it capitalizes on the idea that quantity vs. quality is better. Yet I think most would say dating apps are exhausting and they are time guzzlers and more times than not they bring disappointment. Most online gadgets are designed to keep you swiping right and left rather than help you find the right match – the apps defense is that they think quantity is king . And all this does is it creates the “next best thing” effect, which undoubtably causes us to focus on superficial qualities or instant chemistry. Which brings me to my point…most high quality successful singles understand that lasting, committed relationships take time, they take hard work that it requires trust and dedication. Success is usually never gained with just a swipe and rarely if ever happens instantly.

MATCHMAKING IS NOT SMOKE AND MIRRORS

As a matchmaker for the last 23 years, I like to think my job is very important… it’s a journey, a journey we take together. I love meeting happy successful singles that are open to possibilities and believe in work hard-play hard method. The ones who do not believe in smoke and mirrors they just give you straight talk and they like having a dating road map (it’s the little details that really matter). As a matchmaker it’s my job to relieve you of the driver seat position. I know it’s important to give you the time to focus on your success in business and not on whether or not you are going to run into someone special. On this journey we will follow your personalized dating map, I will introduce you to wonderful beautiful people…people you will usually not run into on your own. Because as a busy professional we know that most the people you run into maybe during a meeting or at a conference and the chances are slim that you want to date someone from work. Knowing this makes me even more focused to finding you lasting, exclusive commitments – pulling out all the stops so you don’t miss out. Busy executives don’t want to deal with the day in the day out of trying to find that special person. So as a matchmaker I try to create an environment that makes getting to know each other exciting, comfortable and enjoyable. Listen, the hardest part of dating as a successful professional is not really the “dating” part – it’s the time factor, the outcome. Successful people are usually rushing around making the most of their time. I understand this and I honor their professional mindset. Executives rarely have time to go out and meet new people in bars or clubs there just isn’t enough time in the day nor is that their focus. They usually have little time and effort to date and quality plus a true connection is most important to them.

LOOKING FOR SUCCESSFUL GO-GETTERS

I enjoy working with successful go-getters. There is always a reason that they are on the top of the corporate ladder. They are most always driven, persistent and they ooze confidence at work. If I ask them they most likely know what they want in life and will do anything in their power to get it.

If you are high-quality successful Single I encourage you to sit down with me. Let’s talk about your personal journey and what that looks like to you. I look forward to helping you find your road map to love.

Warm Regards,

Jessie 

855-664-4588

jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

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The Real Matchmaker™ Jessie Kay Takes the Stress Out of Finding Love With Her Matching Services

The Short Version: Busy professionals often lack the time to go on date after date looking for the perfect partner. That’s where The Real Matchmaker Jessie Kay comes in to help them cut through the quantity and find quality matches. She and her small team of dedicated matchmakers teach men and women in metropolitan areas around the world how to find love. The Real Matchmaker offers a concierge experience, and Jessie gets to know each client to understand their desires and show them how to present their best selves to prospective dates.

“I thought I would be alone forever.”

That’s a line from a lovely letter that Jessie Kay, The Real Matchmaker, received from an ecstatic client who is moving in with a guy who Jessie picked out for her. The lucky lady, Madison, said she’s in a great relationship with a compatible partner for the first time. They have great conversations about their passions, participate in activities they enjoy, and make plans for the future.

Photo of Jessie Kay, Founder of The Real Matchmaker

“I don’t think I’ve ever felt so completely happy with somebody before,” said Madison. Hers is just one of the many success stories that Jessie has heard from satisfied clients.

Jessie is effective as a matchmaker because of the communication skills she learned growing up. She was adopted and didn’t naturally share race, skin color, or style with the other members of her family. But she learned how to fit in with her family so she didn’t feel left out, socially. Eventually, she developed empathy for those who tried hard but couldn’t fit in.

As Jessie approached adulthood, she became proficient in making herself likable. “Once I realized my power and energy, I became one of the most popular people in my graduating class,” she said. Because she was proficient in making herself — and others — likable, Jessie chose a career path where likeability and helping others were two significant parts of the job.

Jessie got her start more than two decades ago with Great Expectations, the nation’s oldest and largest dating agency. She then set out on her own, founding The Real Matchmaker to work closer with her clients to help them find love.

A Unique Concierge Service Run By a Small Team

Jessie works one-on-one with clients to connect with them personally and to better identify the right person with whom to match them.

“I hold my clients’ hands through one-on-one matchmaking, and I pride myself on actually working for them,” she said.

Because of the time-intensive nature of her work, Jessie limits intake of new clients to just three or four a month. “It’s important that we have a real relationship — or even friendship — so that finding love for them becomes more organic, she said.”

She has two team members who assist her by scouting dates. The pair is a bubbly duo who work tirelessly meeting people and compiling information about their interests, so they can make the most suitable matches.

Jessie loves matching her clients with someone who is likely to become a long-term partner, and she said forming friendships with her clients is one of the most rewarding parts of their journey together. As she brings on each new client, she listens to their stories of past successes and failures in romantic relationships. Then they discuss how the person has changed and grown throughout their journey in love, and what they’re currently looking for in a partner.

As a part of her service, Jessie also helps each person look and feel their best with a makeover and photo session. She wants all of her clients to have attractive photos that will accompany the other information potential matches receive.

In addition to helping them look beautiful or handsome on the outside, Jessie helps clients learn to show their inner beauty through coaching, deep conversations, and role-playing. These exercises help them build the confidence they need to make a great first impression and experience fewer pre-date jitters that often creep up.

Jessie’s Dinner Date For Eight parties provide clients an opportunity to refine and sharpen their social skills — as well as the chance to meet someone. The dates are held at trendy restaurants around Los Angeles and Orange County, and each includes four women and four men. Diners are hand-picked by Jessie to ensure that a great vibe is present at the meal and that the conversation never lulls.

Five-Star Matchmaking for Busy Professionals

Jessie works with attractive and successful singles in major metropolitan cities, including New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, San Francisco, and Washington, DC. She also has international clients in locations like France and Spain.

Photo of a Jessie Kay Instagram post

Jessie has been a part of 73 engagements as a matchmaker, which she recently celebrated in an Instagram post.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Over the years of working with clients, Jessie has earned many positive online reviews, including a stellar rating on Yelp, where clients detail the benefits they’ve seen from working with Jessie. Many praise her intuitive ability to match people, her friendliness, and her focus on bringing out the positivity in people.

Jessie is active on social media, too, where she shares practical tips for dating and life. She engages followers on both Facebook and Instagram.

One recent post congratulated a pair of her clients who got engaged, and when they tie the knot, the happy couple will be the 73rd marriage for The Real Matchmaker.

Coming Soon: Seminars and Peer Reviews

Jessie is developing seminars for singles to expand the scope of her matchmaking service, and help both current and potential clients. She described them as “How am I doing?” seminars and said they will allow singles to see which areas they excel in — and which parts of dating with which they may need help.

The seminar will relate to their experience as a single person in the dating world, and participants will receive feedback from a panel of people of the opposite gender.

“I can’t tell you how much good energy and satisfaction I receive from each person I work with.” Jessie Kay, The Real Matchmaker

“The goal is for attendees to use the feedback to become the best they can be at enticing and attracting the mate they want,” she said. She added that she believes this method will lead to greater success for singles as they search for love.

The journey to finding love is not always clear-cut or easy, but Jessie believes it’s the only one in life which really matters.

“I can’t tell you how much good energy and satisfaction I receive from each person I work with,” she said.

JESSIE KAY’S Article (TAP ON THE WORD ARTICLE TO SEE US ON DATINGADVICE.COM by: Charlotte Edwards is a DatingAdvice.com Contributor who enjoys writing about cross-cultural marriage, personal finance, and parenting. Often she combines all three as she shares her experiences going through this crazy adventure called life. Although her most recent dating adventures are limited to at home date nights with her husband of 10 years, she stays current on the latest research, advice, and apps to keep her relationship strong.

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Dating can be FUN!

Approaching someone for the first time can be tricky. How do you go about it, what do you say to someone that could be flirty enough but doesn’t come across as creepy or annoying. In a sea full of singles and corny pickup lines, how do you stand out? The usual approach is to just go straight up and say a simple Hello, followed by the usual ‘How are you, what do you like to do for fun’ this kind of conversation can be construed as mundane chitchat right?! It’s 2018 come with the funny and up your dating game!
Push the envelope by striking up a conversation that catches someone off-guard.
I found 7 funny pickup lines that are great icebreakers. Nothing makes for a more interesting conversation starter than a little sassy or dirty birdie talk.
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🤪California classic, everyone has a dog.
“That’s a cute dog, does it have a name and phone number”
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🤪Hit them with a vain comment.
“What’s a smart, good looking person like myself doing without your number…just saying”
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🤪Everyone likes some sort of sweets.
“You’re like ice cream 🍦, even when you’re bad…you’re so Good”
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🤪Slide in to home plate. “You see my friend over there is shy. He asked me to ask you if you think I’m attractive”
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🤪Follow you anywhere comment.
“I’m going on a long walk (extend your hand out) can you hold this?”
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🤪Daredevil “Listen, you are beautiful and honestly that’s the least interesting thing about you”
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🤪Confidence is Everything!
“So, where are you from? Why do I ask such a mundane question you ask? Because you look Amazing and I want to get to know you sincerely”
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MORAL OF THE STORY… Take the chance and approach someone wholeheartedly and with a sense of humor.

Laughing is ALWAYS the best medicine.
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➡️We are looking for SINGLES for our clients. Please fill out a confidential profile “Let’s see who’s looking for you”💕⬅️
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🔴If you are a match we will complementary set you up🔴
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Hit Link Here to Fill Out a Confidential Profile 
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Thanks for reading!

Love, Jessie

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How to Make Good Choices for Your Love Life

🙆🏽‍♀️How big of an age range do you think is reasonable when dating in today’s world? I talk to many singles who are open to dating someone 10 years younger but can’t fathom dating someone 10 years older. Are we becoming ageist? Or is this the new normal?

>Is it ok to called out on your age choices?

>Do you think by mid life most people know what works for them and what doesn’t?

I know I know, we all have our “ideal preferences”… but is that laundry list so long, so detailed that it’s keeping you out of the dating game?

It is my belief that the way we perceive ourselves and those we ‘think’ we should be with have a significant impact on the life we manifest.

When we wait for the perfect partner we may find ourselves making any number of excuses to put our lives on hold in the meantime.

Well, I’m here to encourage you to commit yourself to looking at dating as an opportunity, one that may lead to new energy in your life.

🤦🏽‍♀️ Release preconceived notion‘s

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🙅🏽‍♀️Leave old routines in the past

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💁🏽‍♀️ View each day as an opportunity

Are you open to possibilities? Join our free confidential database and “Let’s see who’s looking for you!”

Jessie

855-664-4588

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5 Things You Might Be Doing That Scare A Healthy, Happy Mate Away

5 Things You Might Be Doing That Scare A Healthy, Happy Mate Away

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I thought if only I could meet a wonderful person who had their act together then all would fall into place with my life. 😳

The problem with this kind of fantasy is that a healthy happy person wants a healthy happy partner too. This kind of healthy person does not want to engage with someone who is struggling with not liking themselves. Someone who is unhappy with their weight, unhappy with their life and who is also hiding out from their life goals and dreams – can’t be ready for Real love.

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1. Do you obsess about your body, the way you look AND do you put others down – People who may look good or who look healthier than you do.

When you’re obsessed with your look and unhappy with your overall self – this problem will show through NO matter how hard you try to cover it up with a fake smile.

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2. You consistently doubt yourself. AND you doubt others around you.

Self-doubt is simply not sexy – neither is doubting others.

Self-confidence VERY SEXY! Cheering on others – also VERY SEXY!

If you’re second-guessing yourself and others constantly, then your self-doubt will shine through. You might succeed in hiding it for a short time but eventually, it will come out as UNATTRACTIVE BEHAVIOR.

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3. You constantly seek approval. You have to be the center of attention where every you go.

When you seek approval from anyone except from yourself, you’re basically asking others to tell you that YOU deserve to be here with them.

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4. You’re hiding out from others and yourself.

How many people do you know that have dreams but they are not going for them. One of my biggest pet peeves- Big TALKERS 😩…You’re playing it safe and holding back. Live Your Best Life Ever!🙌

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5. You blame others (Stop blaming others!) for your problems.

Taking Personal responsibility is VERY SEXY! Taking full personal responsibility for your health and happiness will attract a stellar mate who is happy and healthy THEMSELVES. 🙏

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🗣JOIN OUR FREE DATABASE-MEET SOMEONE HEALTHY AND HAPPY.

*FILL OUT A CONFIDENTIAL PROFILE NOW. WE ARE LOOKING FOR “GOOD” MATCHES FOR OUR CURRENT “AMAZING” CLIENTS – FILL OUT A PROFILE, LET’S SEE WHO’S LOOKING FOR YOU.

Love, Jessie

jessie@therealmatchmaker.com

 

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We Are Recruiting For Love…

We are recruiting for our current Wonderful clients. 

👉🏽We are looking for men ages 35-65
👉🏽We are looking for ladies 25-50
👉🏽It’s Free To JOIN OUR CONFIDENTIAL DATE-A-BASE (Fill out a profile)

 

LIST OF CURRENT CLIENTS WE ARE SEEKING MATCHES FOR:

👉🏽58 yr old Man – Business Owner – non-religious, active, girl next door type

👉🏽50 yr old Man – Business Investor – non-religious, classy, scholar, engaging, International 

👉🏽45 yr old Man – Sales Director – Christian, tall, a little nerdy and funny

👉🏽42 yr old Man – Business Owner – adventure seeker, giving, curious with a strong learning curve

👉🏽63 yr old Man – Newly retired – generous, great cook, loves shopping and wants a true mate

👉🏽52 yr old Man – Lives in Hawaii – College professor, tall, happy, creative and looking for love 

👉🏽29 yr old Woman – Software, sweet, loving, healthy and interested in marriage and kids

👉🏽40 yr old Woman – Real Estate Investor, funny, exciting, great mom and has a heart of gold

👉🏽36 yr old Woman – Lawyer, nice to everyone, smile lights up room, loves sports and family

👉🏽35 yr old Woman – Independent contractor/Real Estate Investor, loves to smile, loves to do flips, loves life

👉🏽58 yr old Woman – Management – Christian, happy, healthy, engaging, smart, open to nuances, laughs easy

👉🏽54 yr old Woman – Business Owner – Christian, lights up a room, giving, charitable, funny, over the top nice

“LET US SEE WHO’S LOOKING FOR YOU”

LOVE, JESSIE 

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Be Good To Yourself First.

 

I told him, “Offer me something I cannot find in myself.” #lovequotes

Nowadays, so much of social influences lead us or pressure us to be obsessed with the materialism of relationships.
We fuel the misconceptions of relationships and it is so crazy how at times we don’t even realize we are doing this.

The quote above opened discouraging thoughts in my mind about settling and compromising. It reminded me, that I am significant. I am one of a kind. And that I am alive. 💪🏽Be good to yourself first.

***It’s your job to find people who focus on finding love through positive possibilities. A matchmaker is a “Positive Outlet” for finding love and learning how to be “Your Personal Best” in the dating world (you have to be ready for positive changes).

Jessie 855-664-4588 

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Your Love Life Is Not Always Like A Maze

 

 

I think, based on optimism, that life is a journey with U-turns curves and pot holes rather than a just a maze of lines. A maze seems trite or a little simple to me. At least for my life.

It never ceases to amaze me how some people stroll through life, always the same mood, always happy on the outside anyway and seemingly settled (so they think). I’ve mentioned this here because there are some strategies I’ve used to jump some of life’s tough hurdles. Hurdles that may “Hold Me Back”.

Rid your life of negative destructive or uncomfortable people. They are a good portion of the population. Believe it!😳
Expect 50% to be eliminated in your mind. Means bumping into them at shops, talk for a maximum of 30 seconds to be polite and – go! You eliminate any chance of getting upset. That includes your social media friends too.

🚘 If you can afford to move. Or opt to work from home…less stress. No parking metres, calm lifestyle, friendly people in smaller towns. And you are out of the rat race.

Release your Superwoman or Superman. Stop expecting too much of yourself. Organize your life so you don’t get caught up in things that should have been done. Rushing to do them causes stress. Delegate…..if you have to or plan better.

🙏🏼Cherish what you have – not what you do not have. Life is full of beautiful imperfections…channel your emotions to others. Channel what you would have channelled to loved ones – had you had the chance. 💫

❤️ Find “Real Love” with “Real people who want love, the ones open to possibilities” and connect with your Spiritual peace from within, whatever that is for you. 😬

Call Jessie for Coaching Tips – “Get the Partner you’re looking for” 

Jessie 855-664-4588

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8 Most Dating Mistakes Men Make & Don’t End Up Scoring A 2nd Date

8 Most Dating Mistakes Men Make & Don’t End Up Scoring A 2nd Date

👉🏽 While you think you’re acing it on a 1st date, you sometimes end up making really careless dating mistakes.
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*Being Too Choosy And Picky

Are you waiting for someone better to come along? Well, the trick is to live for the moment and go with that gut feeling.
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*Being The Indifferent Fool

If you’re trying to play hard to get, maybe, just maybe it’s getting old? Old Tricks are not always GOOD TRICKS 👎🏽
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*Not Texting Back

It’s a stupid game and no one is interested in waiting to hear back from you. If you really want her SHOW HER 📲Text or Call 👍🏽
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*Don’t Start Sexting Straight Away and stop asking for more pics – MEET her already

If it’s a fresh new beginning, which starts with a ‘hey, what’s up’, don’t, I repeat, don’t send her d*ick pictures straight away, just because you can let jack out of the box, anytime you like. Hold it in and make conversation like a decent man please.
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*Romance Is NOT For Wimps

No harm in showing your sweeter side once in a while with sweet and lovable romantic gestures. You don’t become any less of a man for being sweet, selfless and caring!
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*Expecting Or Asking For Sex On The First Date

No one owes you a free f*ck just because you bought them dinner. So please be a gentleman and stop thinking about humping the daylights out of her, on your first date.
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*X Doesn’t Mark The Spot

Why would you want to bring out the X-files? She’s not interested in who you dated or who you banged 4 months ago. 😳
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👉🏽👉🏽👉🏽 Oh yeah one more thing! 👈🏽👈🏽👈🏽
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*Make up your mind, IN ADVANCE to have fun 🙌🏽 LAUGHTER IS SEXY!

Love, Jessie 

 

credit: @mensxpofficial

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