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Who Doesn’t Want to Be More Charismatic?

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If you are single and in the Los Angeles or San Francisco area then you know how unbelievably difficult it is to meet quality singles… Now add quality singles with charisma. Of course it looks so easy when we see that cool, confident person walk in the room. I know most of us wish we had mesmerizing charismatic effects on the opposite sex, like George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Bill Clinton, Madonna, Sofia Vergara and the Charlize Theron’s of the world (it would make dating a heck of a lot easier). Well believe it or not, these famous sexy, charismatic people where not always irresistible sex symbols. They, just like me and you, had to work at being magnetic.

What makes you attractive to the opposite sex even if you’re not the best looking person? What moves people to take notice of you wherever you are? What invisible “mojo magic” can mesmerize, seduce, motivate and persuade other attractive singles to notice you. It’s charisma, non the less; its so powerful yet can’t be seen or even touched but we all know when someone has it.

As Expert Matchmakers at The Real Matchmaker in Los Angeles and San Francisco, we have a series of question we ask our clients in order to find out their charisma level:

  1. In most situations are you seen as a leader?
  2. Do you always find it easy to make new friends or catch someone’s eye?
  3. Is it easy for you to make the 1st move?
  4. Are you often the center of attention?
  5. Do people generally consider you successful and attractive?
  6. Are you told you have a great sense of humor and know how to make people laugh?

If you can honestly answer Yes to all of these questions then you are here by deemed as a “high level charismatic person”. And on the other hand if you answered most of these questions with a No,  then here are some dating tips towards making your charisma irresistible.

  1. Engage with more expression, humor and with inflection in your voice. Being predictable is never sexy.
  2. Create a presence or make an impact when you enter a room. Charisma is confidence, high energy and creative, never cocky or overly aggressive.
  3. Its always good to keep a little mystery about yourself. Its never the loudest most obnoxious person in the room that is envied.
  4. Learn to tell stories better by painting pictures in a listeners mind. Don’t just tell your story, create an experience with descriptive language.
  5. Dare to have your own unique style. Most charismatic people are not copycats.
  6. As a rule of thumb, by honestly making people feel good about themselves will in return make them feel good about you.

Don’t let trying to be charismatic paralyze you, its suppose to help you discover who you really could be. Visit therealmatchmaker.com to sign up for a sizzling Single to Mingle event or an Attractive Singles Party where you can meet other professional singles and dazzle them with your charisma!

 

Linda, Pacific Palisades, CA

Dating in Los Angeles can be such a headache. Jessie, you have gotten me excited about finding love again and I am actually having fun in the process. I always look forward to meeting my dates and have had more second dates through The Real Matchmaker than when I was searching for quality single men on my own. You really are the best dating service in Los Angeles-possibly the entire world!

Brian, Culver City, CA

Anni, If it wasn’t for your dating advice and scouting I wouldn’t have been in position emotionally to meet my current girlfriend. At the very least, I may not have appreciated how great she is. Thank you for everything!!!

Sonya, Beverly Hills, CA

I was blown away by the great food and great company at the single event you put together. It was so nice that you talked to all of us before the event so that we felt more comfortable. Conversations were so effortless and I can honestly say that this was the most organized and fun singles event I have ever attended. I can’t wait to attend the Date Me Game event you are hosting next month!

Dan, Pasadena, CA

In a world of money making frauds, she is the real deal. Jessie took the time to meet with me, got to know me and listened to what my needs were and what I was interested in, then rolled up her sleeves and went to work. It’s very evident she knows what she’s doing, and takes great pride in taking care of her clients needs. The women she represents, and the dates she has arranged for me have been nothing short of extraordinary, and really fun as well. Really pleased to be working with her.

Lisa, Santa Monica, CA

Jessie, you made me feel so comfortable during our matchmaking consultation. I felt like I was talking to a girlfriend! Thank you for taking so much time to get to know me. Your feedback on how I was holding myself back from meeting quality men was really insightful and inspiring. I can’t wait to meet my first match!

Robert, San Francisco, CA

Anni, I am so impressed with your attention to detail and personal approach to matchmaking. So many dating events are cheesy and awkward and it shows that you put so much effort to set yourself apart from other dating services. I have learned so much from your dating advice and appreciate the candid feedback that you so tactfully deliver.

Carol, Pasadena, CA

Jessie has shown to be a warm encouraging fan and expresses a sincere desire to find a match. Her mixers are a nice range of both women and men and it’s easy to feel comfortable without feeling you are in a “single” situation. She’s a good listener, shows good humor, and is certainly engaging in her role as a matchmaker.

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